Use these books (files) to have great conversation, and treatment. Use standard daily routine chat. Do not overlook. It seems boring but this is how to go about chatting to keep the conversation good, no arguing--with boundaries. Standard daily routine chat is healthy.
Also includes the secret to communication and treatment, "The Touch" in book Compassion-Affection; that we all need to do all the time. Good conversation, and treatment is a big impact on life.